In a world that celebrates independence and self-sufficiency, many of us have bought into the notion that we must do it all on our own. We’ve embraced the “boss babe” mentality, believing that strength means standing alone, conquering challenges, and rising to the top without needing anyone’s help. But as the demands of motherhood, work, and life weigh on us, there’s a growing realization that something essential is missing: community.

The Craving for Connection

Women today are craving connection like never before. We’re hungry for real relationships, for spaces where we can let our guard down and be seen, heard, and understood. Social media, with its polished highlights and filtered lives, has only deepened our longing for genuine interactions. We want to gather, to share our joys and struggles, to offer and receive support. While the digital age has connected us in ways we never thought possible, it has also left us feeling more isolated.

In many cultures around the world, the concept of community is still very much alive. Multi-generational households are common, and women come together to raise children, share responsibilities, and support one another. This model of living, where the burden of life’s challenges is shared, has been a source of strength for generations. It’s a reminder that we were never meant to do life alone.

Letting Go of the “Boss Babe” Mentality

The “boss babe” mentality has its place. It’s empowering to know that women can achieve anything we set our minds to, that we can be leaders, entrepreneurs, and trailblazers. But when this mindset becomes an idol, it isolates us from one another. It tells us that we need to compete rather than collaborate, that asking for help is a sign of weakness rather than wisdom.

The truth is, we were designed to rely on one another. From the beginning of time, women have gathered in groups, supporting each other through the highs and lows of life. Whether it’s raising children, caring for aging parents, or simply navigating the complexities of everyday life, we are stronger together. We thrive in community.

Building Back Families and Communities

So, how do we return to a sense of community? How do we rebuild the village that many of us feel we’ve lost?

First, we must be intentional. Building community doesn’t just happen; it requires effort. It means reaching out, making time, and being willing to invest in the lives of others. Start by looking around: who in your life could use a friend, a listening ear, or a helping hand? Maybe it’s the new mom down the street, or the elderly neighbor who lives alone. It could be as simple as inviting someone over for coffee or organizing a playdate for the kids.

Next, we need to embrace the idea of multi-generational relationships. There’s so much wisdom to be gained from women who have walked the path before us, and so much energy and fresh perspective to be found in younger women. Let’s create spaces where all ages are welcome, where we can learn from one another and grow together.

Finally, we must prioritize the rebuilding of our families. The family is the cornerstone of society, and when families are strong, communities are strong. This doesn’t mean we need to have it all together; it means being committed to one another, showing up even when it’s hard, and finding ways to support each other as mothers, wives, and women.

The Beauty of Dependence

There’s a unique beauty in dependence, a beauty that our culture has largely forgotten. When we lean on one another, when we share our burdens and joys, we find that life is richer, fuller, and more meaningful. We discover that we don’t have to carry the weight of the world on our shoulders because we have each other.

It’s time to let go of the belief that we must do it all on our own. It’s time to embrace the power of community, to build back our families, and to find ways to support each other as mothers and women. Together, we can create a world where no one has to walk alone.

Book Recommendation: “The Life-Giving Home” by Sally Clarkson and Sarah Clarkson

If you’re seeking more inspiration on building a life centered around family, community, and intentional living, I highly recommend “The Life-Giving Home” by Sally Clarkson and Sarah Clarkson. This book offers practical advice and heartfelt stories on how to create a warm, welcoming home that nurtures relationships and fosters a sense of belonging. It’s a beautiful reminder of the importance of community and the lasting impact we can have when we live life together.

You’ve got this, mama. Keep going, and don’t forget to breathe.